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A Gentleman’s Guide to Relationship Milestones…

To find the unity within the Self is the mark of a ‘Gentleman’ and it is this Truth, Light and Power to create a framework for the Gentleman’s Divine Masculine

In a patriarchal world which separates and divides in definitions, the word ‘Gentleman’ can be seen as old fashioned and very patronising.  To invite yourself into receiving your Divine Masculine and creating meaningful relationship patterns, self-sustaining Physical, Emotional and Spiritual relationships with the self and the Heart, must be a primary goal.

Relationship milestones for the Divine Masculine Gentleman traditionally represented entry into education, university, marriage, parenthood etc.  However, the true understanding of a relationship must come from the exploration of your Inner Masculine, examining the external reality through patriarchy.

Relationship milestones acknowledge, an Inner Stability against the hatred and cruelty to allow these layers to be observed and acknowledged for what they are.  Every opportunity must be given to allow this Inner Exploration for a Gentleman.

The creation of the Heart is the greatest weapon a Gentleman must aspire in all relationship patterning. 

The Gentleman needs to come to a space of Pure Love for his Truth.

He must guard his small ego continuously and rigorously and begin to feed himself this truth.  There is a need now to reinforce this belief in his Truth; as a Truth Seeker and Order creator…

For Truth and Order are his creations.  These are needed for him now to create all of life.  The essence of his Truth must be in the availability to create.  For it is in the creation process that the Gentleman can find Mastery over the ‘Little Self’.

The Gentleman must see himself as this creation in all relationship patterning.  For he is vulnerable when he hasn’t had this creation sharpened. 

  • Always create with the weapon of truth. 
  • Always create with the weapon of fire. 
  • The Gentleman is a firewalker.

Visualization Exercise:

Try and visualize yourself now as a firewalker. Really imagine the level of concentration and energy you would need for the red-hot coals not to burn your soles of your feet. Feel the essence of fire searing the skin, but not burning it. The weapon of fire must be mastered for the High Priest – Divine Masculine Gentleman. 

“I master fear through fire.”
“I master fear through the element of fire.” 

“All fear around fire and burning must go.” 

Fire purges, cleanses and makes new. We burn off our old dross daily, and we create new. The essence of fire is in cleansing, cleanse and burn of the old to make new again. You need to feel the frequency of fire around you to cleanse and burn off dross. Now, you need to create with the essence of fire. You need strong pure energy to transform your heart. The essence of fire is in you now to cleanse and burn off all that is not required for your journey with The High Priest. The High Priest will be born through the vibration of fire. The fire is the surrender to the Priesthood and Priests in ancient times had their initiations by fire. Fire now is allowed to be part of your cellular memory as a purging, burning vibration. 

See yourself now descending into a fiery furnace. You see yourself now observing yourself, about to be consumed. Look at yourself as you lay on your coffin or stone table. Really examine yourself. You are now going to allow yourself the gift of rebirth through the element of fire. Fire is the first element of ascension. You must now feel the fire. Surrender to its mighty force and majesty to burn off all your fears and limitations about your immortal self. You are about to blow yourself apart with the heat of the flames, which will explode through your body now, cracking your skull. Feel your skull crack wide open now, as the forces rip through you, as you lay there charred and now, ash. You see your Immortal Priest begin to be born. 

Watch him slowly appear now. Watch him come to life through the ashes of your past. Feel him emerging through a coil of gentle smoke or mist. Feel this now. Observe him. What has he to say to you now? What has he to bring you? Watch him. Breathe him into you as you feel him pulsing in your root chakra. Feel him rising through your energy centres. Hold him now at your heart centre. Hold him now. 

·        Make a contract with him.

·        Give him your honour.

·        Give him your truth.

·        Give him your belief in what you are worth. 

You will now feel his power rip into your very being. You are not afraid of each other now. You are both fearless. You are both free. You are born free. You are born free now to begin to create with your High Priest as you now are consecrated. You have consecrated yourself to him and you are now in a position to really allow him to merge with you. 

The True Gentleman has Mastered the art of Fire

This is the greatest weapon against his fears of his own Divine Masculine relationships.

Heart I Love you, 



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